If you sanctimoniously tell someone who suffers from low self-esteem and feelings of hopelessness that they shouldn’t even think about being in a relationship “until you learn to love yourself”

Just know that what you’re saying to them is “your symptoms make you undeserving of love and companionship”

and that makes you super-duper ableist.

Depression, hopelessness, sorrow, anxiety, etc, are not mutually exclusive with healthy happy relationships.

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